After 23 years computing my most often used words are still why? and how?

I think the title sums up the whole reason for this blog.
After all this time I still can't understand the bloody things...it's a bit like being married.
So where now?
Use this as you would a chat in your local bar, yes sex if you want, but try to keep it somewhere connected to computers and computing.
Talk about your problems here and hopefully someone out there will know the solution.
If you don't ask, you don't get.
And do share your laughs with all of us, there's a funny side to most problems in life...you just have to look for them.
So up to you now...let us know what's confusing you, bugging you or just interests you.
No question is too silly or too smart.
And if you're new to computers and are totally confused...think of this not so much as a fountain of knowledge...more like the blind leading the blind.